“It Is No Measure of Health to Be Well Adjusted to a Profoundly Sick Society.” — Jiddu Krishnamurti

- - Advice

🧠 A Bold Reflection on Conformity, Broken Systems, and the Madness of Being “Normal”


Let’s cut the fluff:
If a society is sick, then being “well adjusted” to it isn’t success.
It’s a symptom.
And you, my friend, might be the patient — not the hero.

Krishnamurti didn’t whisper this. He screamed it with quiet wisdom.


🏫 You Follow the Rules? Congratulations, You’re Programmed.

You wake up, do what you’re told, tick the boxes, and earn approval.
Good grades. Good job. Good behavior.
But here’s the real question:
Is the system you’re excelling in even healthy?

Because if:

  • Schools kill creativity
  • Jobs drain purpose
  • Success is measured in bank balance
  • Emotions are shamed
  • And compassion is weakness

Then being “normal” might actually be the real danger.


🧠 Conformity Is Not Mental Health

You sit at your desk 10 hours a day.
You stay silent when injustice happens.
You laugh at your boss’s lame jokes.
You scroll endlessly to feel connected.
And yet, you’re called “stable” because you’re functioning?

No.

Functioning in a broken system is not a sign of strength.
It’s a sign that you’ve been conditioned to cope — not to live.


📚 Let’s Talk About Education

They say school prepares you for life.
But real life demands:

  • Critical thinking
  • Emotional intelligence
  • Purpose
  • Creativity
  • Courage to question

School teaches:

  • Rote memorization
  • Obedience
  • Fear of failure
  • Respect for authority — even when it’s abusive

We’re building good workers, not good humans.

So if your child hates school, maybe it’s not the child that’s broken —
Maybe the system is.


🧑‍⚕️ Mental Health in a Mad World

In a society addicted to:

  • Hustle culture
  • Toxic positivity
  • Materialism
  • Fake perfection

…those who feel anxious, depressed, or sensitive aren’t broken.
They’re responding normally to abnormal conditions.

Maybe anxiety isn’t a disorder.
Maybe it’s your soul screaming:
“This isn’t how I want to live.”


💥 What Does “Sick Society” Look Like?

  • Billionaires celebrated while farmers starve
  • Children memorizing facts but never taught empathy
  • People choosing jobs over joy
  • Racism, sexism, classism — normalized
  • Plastic smiles on mental health posters, while real therapy is unaffordable
  • Everyone competing, no one connecting

And then they ask you:
“Why aren’t you happy?”


🔥 So, What Should We Do?

🧭 Stop Measuring Yourself by a Broken Ruler

If the world says you’re “too emotional,” “too slow,” or “too different” — good.
That might mean you’re still human.

❓ Question Everything

Every rule. Every norm. Every “must do.”
Who made them? For what purpose?

🌱 Build Inner Truth, Not Outer Approval

Meditate. Journal. Walk. Reflect.
Be so self-aware that society’s madness can’t infect you.

🛠 Create a New Way

Don’t adjust to the system.
Change it.
Raise your kids differently.
Build workplaces that care.
Support schools that teach life, not just math.


🧨 Final Thought

Being “well adjusted” in today’s society is like polishing your shoes on the Titanic.
The ship is sinking — and they’re giving awards for how calm you look.

So next time someone calls you “not normal,” smile.

Because in a sick society,
being sane looks like rebellion.

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