Climbing Ladders or Building Bridges? Why Competition Lives at the Bottom and Collaboration Wins at the Top
š§± The Harsh Truth: Most People Are Fighting Over Scraps
Walk into any college, startup, or corporate cubicle zone and you’ll feel itāthe heat of competition. People clawing, gossiping, undercutting, all to grab the same promotion, recognition, or client. Itās the ācrabs in a bucketā syndrome. Each one trying to rise, only to be pulled back by the others.
Why?
Because at the bottom, there’s scarcity. Scarcity of power, resources, and most importantlyāperspective.
š The Top Has a Different Vibe: Collaboration > Competition
Now fast forward to the boardroom, to the startup foundersā club, or to that group of creators with millions of followers. What are they doing?
Theyāre collaborating.
Theyāre investing in each otherās success.
Theyāre sharing networks, knowledge, and leverage.
Because once you’ve built something, once you’re not worried about survival, you’re thinking long-term.
You stop seeing people as threats, and start seeing them as multipliers.
š” Game Recognize Game
The smartest people in the room donāt need to prove anything.
They recognize talent, they respect hustle, and they join forces.
Thatās why billionaires co-invest.
Why top athletes train together in the off-season.
Why real change-makers build ecosystems, not empires.
Ego is expensive. Collaboration is profitable.
š Competition Is a Low-Level Operating System
If you’re stuck constantly competing, it’s time to ask:
- Are you building your own thing or just trying to beat someone else at theirs?
- Are you creating value or just reacting to someone elseās moves?
- Are you networking with people at your level or learning from those ahead?
Youāre not losing because you’re not good enough.
Youāre losing because youāre playing a game that was never meant to be wonāonly exhausted from.
š§ Escape the Bottom: How to Shift Gears
- Zoom Out: Stop obsessing over petty wins. Think in decades, not deadlines.
- Add Value: Be the person who makes others better. That’s who gets invited to the big table.
- Collaborate Early: Donāt wait to āmake it.ā Start building bridges now.
- Stop Competing With Clones: Innovate. Move to a game that you define.
š„ Final Thought: Choose Your Game
The wolves donāt bark at every dog on the street.
They hunt in packsāand they feed each other.
So decide:
Do you want to fight for a seat at someone elseās table?
Or build one so big others bring chairs?
Because at the top, game recognizes gameāand everyone eats.



